The male mind is a hard egg to crack, and you never really know what it is that they are thinking. You want to know if you are with a man who is looking for something more? If you do then you have to figure out how to go from hookup to relationship, and how to read the signs to see which one he is interested in.
The first thing that you should know is someone having sex, or hooking up with you more than one time does not mean that they want a relationship with you. They could just like the convenience of calling you when they are horny. You will usually go because you can’t resist, and then end up feeling used when they do not call for a few days. You will then set the same vicious cycle into motion by going the next time they call. When you make it that easy for someone to get laid, then you should not expect any less. Some other obvious signs are if you never go out together and if he does not introduce you to his friends. These are things that say the guy is not serious about you.
So how do you know if it is more than just sex? You can tell if he takes you out on dates, and wants to spend time with you all the time and not just late at night when he has been drinking. Some women think if they continue to sleep with a man, and put in the time that they will be one day rewarded with him wanting to be in a serious relationship. Most of the time this never happens and the girl just feel horrible until it ends with him breaking her heart. Sex does not equal a relationship, and communication is important. If someone does not introduce you to his friends ask him why, and you will get the answer you need whether you like it or not.